A dildo resembles a penis and is a sex toy.
Although not all dildos have the appearance of a penis, they provide a sensation similar to that of a penis during use.
Dildos can be used for sexual stimulation (e.g., two partners having sex). For example, a heterosexual couple might want a penis-shaped object to try double penetration for the woman, or the man might want to experience anal penetration while having sex to stimulate the prostate.
A dildo might also increase a woman's sexual pleasure as it can stimulate the G-spot or A-spot during vaginal penetration (which can also stimulate a man's erogenous zones).
Note that wanting to try anal or oral sex has nothing to do with your sexuality. You can be straight and enjoy anal sex. Just like oral sex, it provides a different kind of sexual stimulation.
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What kind of different dildos are there?
Dildos come in all different shapes and sizes, including:
- Double ended.
- Strap on (the dildo is strapped on using a harness).
- Realistic dildos (i.e., shaped like a penis).
- Anal (shaped for anal sex, meaning it has a base so it can't disappear into your anus)
- Vibrating dildos.
- Bullet vibrator.
You can attach most types of dildos on a harness, which can be worn to mimic the look and feel of a real penis. You can also use some dildos for temperature play (when a dildo stimulates the body through heat and cold for a sensual effect).
What is a dildo made of?
Dildos come in different materials, including glass, plastic, silicone, and metal.
No matter which material you choose for your dildo, using it with a condom can help to keep you and any partners safe.
Caring for your dildo and how to clean it
To stay safe when using a dildo, it's crucial to clean the object well. If you share it with others, disinfect it with a sex toy cleaner and rinse it in water.
You can wash a dildo made with a non-porous material such as glass, medical grade silicone, or steel with antibacterial soap and warm water.
If the dildo is made with a porous material, like stone, you should boil it after use.
Generally, it is safe to store a dildo in a drawer or cupboard inside a bag made of lint-free fabric or a clean non-plastic container.
How is a dildo inserted?
Start small, go slow, and not too deep. The dildo should fill you, but not be so large it hurts you. Likewise, the shape of the dildo should feel comfortable, as should how you position it.
If you use a dildo anally, ensure it has a base so it can't "disappear" into your body.
Using lube (especially on the tip of the dildo) is always a good idea. Make sure it's compatible with the material of your dildo, and check the pack, as sometimes lube comes included.
Is a dildo right for me?
The decision to incorporate a dildo into your intimate sexual experiences is personal.
Whether you're looking to enhance your solo play, explore new sensations with a partner, or embrace your curiosity with a new object, a dildo can be a valuable addition to your journey of self-discovery and sexual wellness.
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